16A –What’s Your Secret Sauce?

1) Describe five ways in which you think you have human capital that is truly unique. What is it about you, exactly, that makes you different? Write this up in a detailed list. 

I believe that I have many unique traits that make me who I am, but I had to choose five ways that I believe I have human capital that is unique I would say:

I am very determined, motivated and will continue to fight knowing I'm wrong, losing, or have the urge to give up. In any argument, game or task, I will not let up until it's over or we reach a consensus. 

I have a unique style in communicating my points to others and how I come off to people in a conversation in order to make them want to help me. 

My self-confidence is very high and no matter how negative people are, I always respond in a positive manner trying to help others.

I'm always interested in learning more, asking questions to better understand something or simply researching a topic that I think is interesting and want to know more about. 

I know how to time manage very well and can separate having fun and being serious.  I always enjoy hanging out with my friends but also know when its time to focus on school work or business. 

2) Interview the five people who know you the best. Ask them what they think makes you different -- remember, focus on your knowledge, skills, abilities, emotions -- in other words, your human capital. Try to stay away from discussing your other types of capital (such as who you know). Record each interview. In your post, please post each interview, as well as a two-three sentence summary of each interview, explaining what your key takeaways are. There is no time limit on these recordings. As long as you cover the information asked for above, that's all you need to do. (Audio recordings are fine. You'll need to use a platform like Soundcloud to host your files.)

Interview 1 with my Mom: https://soundcloud.com/user-463969155/mom-interview-1/s-E1jJT

The first interview I conducted was with my Mom who talked about my empathy and emotions when I pay attention to how other people are feeling. She goes on to say that I'm a good listener and have a common sense skill set, which helps me connect with others around me. Lastly, she discusses how I'm very determined and unwilling to give up and quit.

Interview 2 with my Dad: https://soundcloud.com/user-463969155/dad-recording/s-ejriE

The second interview was with my father who exclaimed most of my traits when it comes to seeing a situation and knowing whats going on beneath the surface. Furthermore, he discusses how I'm willing to take chances and be a leader and take charge in something that I believe in. 

Interview 3 with my friend Gabe: https://soundcloud.com/user-463969155/gabe-r-recording/s-vx6ho

The next interview was conducted with one of my closest friends who discusses my confidence and how I'm not scared of what other people think of me. He goes on to say  how I am determined and vigilant when it comes to completing my work on time. Lastly, he explains how I am good negotiator and if I want something, I wont be willing to let the deal walk away. 

Interview 4 with family friend Sofia: https://soundcloud.com/user-463969155/sofia-rey/s-hUtR0

My fourth interview was with my close friend and neighbor who explains that I'm very outgoing and willing to help others without expecting anything in return. She also explains how I am confident with the work that I do and if I'm lacking confidence, that I will always find a way to persevere. Last, Sofia explains how I'm a good team leader and that I am always looking out for others to make sure their performing to the best of their abilities. 

Interview 5 with my friend Nadia: https://soundcloud.com/user-463969155/nadia/s-eHDkB

The last interview was with my close friend Nadia who went on to say how I'm a very genuine person and that I try not to lie to others, especially friends. She continues to say how I'm funny and a positive person, who has a great outlook on life and is strong minded. Furthermore, she explains how I'm good at communicating and overall a good friend. 

3) Reflect on the differences. How do you see yourself, and how do others see you? Are there differences in how you assess yourself compared to others? What do you think causes these differences? Do you think your interviewees are correct about you? Finally, going back to your list from part 1, would you make any corrections to the list? How? 

After conducting interviews with some of my closet friends and family, I would say that me and the people I interviewed agree on a lot of character traits that make me different. One aspect in particular that a majority of the interviewers discussed was how I am a genuine person and am always looking out for the well-being of others. A few characteristics that we agreed on were that I am very confident in any situation and even when I'm not, I find a way to be confident as a person or in the work I'm doing. Also, my friends and family discussed my motivation and determination to finish something when it comes to completing any work or task that I start. Some differences that were not mentioned were my time management and my interest in learning more about a particular subject. The reason why the interviewees did not mention these traits are because they're personal and not many people know about how I manage my time and what I do with my free time. I agree with a majority of the compliments that the interviewees discussed but there is definitely room for improvement for how I am as a person. If I were to go back to my original list, I wouldn't change anything because those traits I wrote I feel describe me the best and even though the people I interviewed didn't discuss all of them, each one still holds value to me.